Victim consciousness draws in not only negative experiences but also the right people to help support these negative experiences. For example, people who have victim attitudes will draw fellow victims as well as abusers to exploit their consciousness. They will often wonder why they keep attracting abusive partners or friends. They do not realize that they attract abusive partners or friends because of the way they think. The Law of Attraction is a universal law that utilizes thoughts to attract similar people who want similar experiences. In other words, if we keep thinking that we are victims, the Law of Attraction will keep bringing abusive people or situations into our lives to provide more victim experiences until we learn our lessons or change our thought patterns. Abusers cannot play their roles without the participation of victims unless they force victims to participate. Once victims understand this, they can remove themselves from the situation by changing their attitudes and actions. Another example of a victim and abuser relationship is war because it establishes an extreme situation in which the victims are abused by the abusers. War does not solve problems: it only attracts more wars. http://energyfanatics.com/2010/04/24/victim-consciousness-how-to-overcome-it/
Most people feel unhappy because they amplify the small inconveniences that come their way. An inconvenience will become a problem the moment we lose the determination to solve it, and we allow ourselves to feel dispirited. It is simply about changing the attitude of "I can't" to one of "I am going to solve it."
Taking, Allowing or Tolerating Abuse
"Taking or enduring hardships, or censure, or idiosyncrasies of others, is not necessarily patience at all. It may become merely that of being a drudge not only to self but an outlet of expression from others that may never be quite satisfying because there is no resistance." Cayce (3161-1)
As a Man Thinketh